Month: May 2026

This weekend, I was reminded that even the best routines need a little flexibility.

At our house, bedtime with two young boys usually has a rhythm. Bath, snack, books, calm voices. Lights down. The whole thing is designed to gently land the plane after a busy day.

But this weekend, with my almost-three-year-old, the routine took a detour.

Before the books and quiet voices, we ended up wrestling on the bed. Nothing fancy. Just dad and son, laughing, rolling around, and making one of those little memories you hope you never forget. And I will admit, I was emotional that evening thinking about my little boy and how he will one day be a young man.

Eventually, we still made it back to the routine. Books were read. The room got quiet and bedtime happened.

But the best part wasn’t the schedule.

It was the adjustment.